Camping at the Karamajong Cattle Kraal

After enjoying a New Years’ lunch in a Karamajong village, our guide, Thomas, took us further off the beaten path. We sat upright and alert in the Landcruiser as he pointed us through an open plain where there was only a small path made by cattle - a path that often disappeared, leaving us to guess where it might lead. Thomas used the mountains in the distance to know the direction and we drove along slowly, scared we may pop a tire on one of the many broken stumps scattered around the plain. It was nearly an hour later when we finally saw signs of life - a boy of about 8 years old with a big smile on his face, jogging alongside our car as we found the rest of his companions. We had made it to the cattle kraal, where we would spent the night with the Karamajong men and boys, all who were caring for the treasures of the tribe - the cattle and goats.

We were welcomed upon arrival and introduced to several members of the group, which included boys as young as 5 years old, entrusted with the great responsibility of overseeing their families’ most significant source of wealth. Thomas translated for us as we were shown the herds of livestock and how they had constructed temporary pens for the animals using branches of acacia thorns.

Leo and Pax loved the baby animals, particularly the goats, and lit up in delight when a boy brought one over for them to hold. After a quick look around, we set up our tent and ate a meal, being told that we would soon see the process of making dinner at the Karamajong cattle kraal.

Soon enough, we were called over to a pen where some young men had chosen the animal that would provide the evening’s meal, which would consist of no more than the blood from one of their cattle. While a few of the boys held the cow, another young man knelt with a bow and arrow, attempting to pierce the cow in the neck. It took a few tries and a few different people to properly pierce the vein, and when they finally succeeded, another boy was ready with a pot to collect the flowing blood. When the supply began to dwindle, the cow lay down to recover and one boy whipped the blood with his hand, separating the plasma, and giving it to a dog waiting for its treat. From there, each took their turn drinking their evening meal. As the sun went down, small groups were formed around small fires, and grass mats were laid out as beds. We retired into our tent, falling asleep to the strange, human-like sounds of the goats bleating into the night.

The next morning, we again greeted our hosts and their livestock, watching as some boys collected a breakfast of milk from their goats and cattle. A young man showed us how he brushed his teeth with the branch from the “toothbrush tree.” One boy found Leo and Pax’s favorite goat from the night before and brought it over for them to hold again as Eric and I packed up the rig. We thanked our hosts and said goodbye, driving back through the tricky plains and into the nearest town, where we bid farewell to Thomas and continued on our road trip to our next destination - Soroti town.

Kidepo National Park

Driving into Kidepo National Park, is a treat unto itself. Long before the park entrance, coming in from Kitgum, you feel yourself more silent and reverent at the beauty of the plains and mountains. The landscape of Kidepo (Uganda’s most remote park) is a stunner, and visitors are often rewarded for their long trip to the northeastern corner of Uganda with wonderful wildlife sightings. The last time I was in Kidepo, we saw lions tearing away at a buffalo carcass and I saw more new birds than I could keep track of. It was also a childless trip, with a stay at the park’s fanciest lodge, so clearly this was going to be a different experience.

We pulled into the Uganda Wildlife Authority’s main campsite, thinking we would stay somewhere close to a food source, but the only place to camp was directly by the entrance with neither a view nor privacy. After lunch, a rest, a wee, and making payment, we drove off to compare the more remote campsites and landed on the one said to be frequented by lions, and we settled in, occasionally standing on the large rock that provided a wonderful look-out and gave the boys an exciting place to play with their monster trucks.

We stayed at this campsite for three nights, with the company of some rangers when darkness came and with some friends joining us on our second day. We heard lions roaring from a distance each night and each day we hired a ranger to help us look for them, but we had no luck. We had to make due with stories about lions, told to us by the rangers, who said the lions were occasionally found sleeping in the shade huts set up on the campsite.

When out here in the wilderness with kids, I admit to a constant, background state of anxiety. Many would think it would have something to do with Africa’s top predator potentially looming about, but I trust the guidance from the rangers when it comes to the big game. Instead, I’m often alert to other potential sources of injury - ants nests, thorns, cliffs, lightening storms. At one point, Leo and I stood atop the lookout rock, talking to another visiting couple, when a swarm of bees quickly surrounded us. We ran down the rock and thankfully they didn’t follow us, but my mind started to work out scenarios and options if they had wanted to attack. The most pressing health and safety issue may have been the sun, which shone relentlessly. We enjoyed the crisp evenings when the sun went down and treated ourselves to some marshmallows.

The game sighting were not spectacular this time around in Kidepo, but we left knowing this is part of the safari experience. Out here in the wilderness, nothing is guaranteed and your best option is to be grateful for the beauty that does present itself to you. We still saw elephants, jackals, giraffes, kudu, vultures pecking away at a buffalo carcass, and even a bat hanging in the campsite latrine. And the landscape, of course. That is no small thing.

Aruu Falls

After waking up at Ziwa Rhino Sanctuary, we packed up the rig and opted for the easy breakfast option at Kabalega diner, before hitting the road toward our final destination of Kidepo National Park. We took a short break in Gulu, where we picked up lunch, and took it with us for a picnic at Aruu Falls. The plan was for a short, pleasant lunch with a view before driving on to Kitgum, where we would pitch our tent in the gardens of Acaki Lodge. But, our stay at the falls was extended, simply because they were too inviting not to explore. Leo kept begging to go in the water, but we had not brought any extra clothes down the steep and slippery path to the falls, so I kept telling him no.

He begged to at least put his feet in.

Fine. I agreed. Your feet.

Soon, his pant legs were rolled up and he was in up to his knees. Well, I didn’t want his pants to get wet, so I told him he might as well take them off. Then he was wading in deeper, nearly up to his waist, and his shirt would soon get wet, so off that came, too. Of course, his little brother couldn’t just watch all the fun without joining in and soon we had 2 kids in underwear/diapers and I had my pant legs rolled up, assisting Pax in climbing over the slippery rocks.

We didn’t regret it. The sun was scorching and the water was refreshing. We had more than a scenic view for a picnic. Instead, we had a small, but fun adventure.

While navigating the rock path on the way back to the car, Leo demanded to know when we were coming back.

Ziwa Rhino Sanctuary

Over Christmas 2019, we crammed our Land Cruiser as full as it could be and drove around Kenya for a month, with a 1-year old and 4-year old. It was epic and it was the most exhausting thing I’ve ever done in my life. Only now, Leo was hooked on camping and begged to go again. So, For Christmastime 2020, we lowered our expectations and set off once again, this time staying within Uganda and this time limiting ourselves to only being gone for 2 weeks. This time, however, there was a fresh excitement because we had endured the insanity that was the year of 2020, including the many intense COVID lock-downs in Uganda, which did not allow private citizens to even drive out of our compounds. Uganda was also facing an election where the young musician, Bobi Wine, faced off against long-time President Museveni.

We headed north. Destination: Karamoja. Our first stop along the way was Ziwa Rhino Sanctuary, where many good and excellent people care for and protect a rhino population that they hope one day to re-introduce to Uganda’s national parks after they were nearly poached to extinction. Upon arrival, we were greeted at the campsite by a family of warthogs. We set up camp and the boys explored the site on their bikes, running across a herd of ankole cattle with their epic long horns.

Leo and I then went on a nature walk with a ranger, first spotting some African hoopoe birds playing the grass and showing off their mohawks. The ranger pointed out all kinds of nature facts along the way, but this was not a rhino trek, so we didn’t count on seeing the rhinos. I had been to Ziwa several times before and had the privilege of spending time with the rhinos, so I didn’t think we needed to set out to see them this time. But we were lucky. We came across them in our walk and our ranger took us as close as we could get. These rhinos have a team of rangers with them 24/7 for protection. It was a special treat to see them during this visit.

After the walk, we made dinner with the warthogs for company and roasted marshmallows for dessert. The boys took a dip in their basins for a quick wash, then changed into pjs and we tucked ourselves in to our rooftop tent.

Homecoming and Reflections from our Kenya Overland Trip

It took two more days of driving before our month-long trip was truly over. We ended in Jinja, where we relaxed and recovered at Eric’s parents’ place on the Nile River, his Dad joining us our second night there, giving us a reprieve while he spent time with the kids. We needed it.

We had stayed at a simple, but clean place the night before called Maraboi Estate, driving there from the Maasai Mara, and then had a long day of driving to reach Jinja, including a border crossing back into Uganda. It took about 7 hours from Maraboi Estate to Jinja. We pulled over on the side of the road to have our lunch and give ourselves a break. After that, I sat in the back with the kids, since Pax was crying in his car seat. I was so tired and didn’t have the energy to hold him, not to mention I didn’t think it was safe to hold him on the busy highway. Sitting beside him did not help, so he cried for at least the last hour of the trip and I had a horrible, pounding headache. It was as if we all knew how close we were and we just wanted to be there already.

It was good to be [relatively] home. Right away, Leo jumped out of the car to play with William, his playmate, and Scout, the dog. I went vertical on the sofa, falling into a deep nap. We stayed in Jinja for a couple of days, staving off the inevitable to-do lists that would overwhelm us back in Kampala. We caught up on some much-needed rest while Grandpa helped entertain the kids.

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We managed to keep the kids asleep for most of the drive back to Kampala, so Eric and I had some time to talk and reflect about our trip. This trip took it out of us. It was hard and we were arriving home weary, but was it worth it? If we could go back in time, would we decide to do this trip again or would we fly to the beach and relax for a couple of weeks instead? Or rather, should we simply have stayed at home? We laughed, remembering a South African couple we chatted with at the Maasai Mara, who saw us overlanding with kids so young and blurted out, “Are you fucking crazy!?” She was a mom of 4, she said, and they were only overlanding now that the kids were out of the house. We remembered watching another couple at Lake Baringo, sitting calmly in their camping chairs, overlooking the lake and reading their books. We looked over to them in longing and jealousy as Eric and I hand-washed clothes, traded kid-watch, and cooked meals.

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Drying cloth diapers while on the road

Drying cloth diapers while on the road

But how could we say that it wasn’t worth it? Sometimes it really is the intention that counts. Our trip was planned with the intention to be present with one another, live simply, and explore the beauty of our East African home. We dug in deep and made an adventure happen. While there were certainly tears, there was also a lot of laughter and love. I clung to a moment when Leo looked right in my eyes and said, “We all love each other, don’t we, Mom?”

We believed that going together on a trip was better than giving our children lots of presents for Christmas and, when asked, Leo agreed. Admittedly, this kind of a trip may have been too much to ask of a 1-year old, who had a hard time with the long drives and couldn’t understand why he was limited in movement when there was an ant nest around or when we were trying to keep him out of the mud. We also agreed that if our intention was presence, a trip to the beach may have been the better option, since camping was simply so demanding. There was always work to be done and the children were not old enough to truly help, so we felt like we were always putting them off so we could pack up, cook, wash clothes and dishes, etc. A beach vacation probably would have allowed us to be more relaxed and present with children at this age, but in looking back on our trip, i do think the difficulties brought us closer. And now that we have been stuck at home this year, spending lots of time together due to COVID-19, I am grateful that we did push into the difficulties of the trip and made it happen. Leo still talks about it and wants to camp again soon. Just last night, out of nowhere, he said, “Mom, do you remember the puddles that looked like lakes in Kenya?” He was referring to the flooding in Amboseli. We adults scorned it, since it prevented us from accessing much of the park, but Leo had a blast splashing through the puddles and it seems he remembers it fondly.

We will continue overland trips with the kids around Africa, and we know (or hope) it will only get easier and more enjoyable as they grow up and are able to help out more and appreciate the sights more. Overlanding offers incredible learning opportunities, bringing you face-to-face with lessons on culture, history, geography, languages, the natural sciences, and more outside of a textbook or screen. I hope it will also teach them that we can do hard things together.

In the end, I think the best summary of our trip is best said by by Sigurd Olson:

We had left no mark on the country itself, but the land had left its mark on us.”

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